Quantifying the Cost of Conflict

The annual tab for violence, as well as stress-inducing hostility in the workplace, comes to about $13.5billion in medical costs, and 500,000 workers missing 1.75 million days of work.- National Center for Health Statistics, 2002.

84% of people believe that efforts to improve workplace civility would increase their personal productivity. - 2003 Baltimore Workplace Civility Study.

  • The typical manager spends 25-40% of his or her time dealing with workplace conflicts. That’s one or two days every work week. — Washington Business Journal, May 2005
  • More than 50% of employers report having been sued by an employee. — SHRM survey cited in USA Today, 2001
  • The national average compensatory award in employment practice liability cases rose from $134K in ‘97 to $250K in ‘03. –JuryVerdictResearch.com, 2004
  • Ernst & Young estimates the cost of replacing an employee as high as 150% of the departing employee’s annual salary. –Workforce.com
  • Organizations adopting conflict resolution processes, like mediation and arbitration, report 50-80% reductions in litigation costs. — Thomas Stipanovvich, ADR and the “Vanishing Trial”: The Growth and Impact of Alternative Dispute Resolution, 2004

Our Favorite 15 Workplace Quotes

  1. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality. — Bishop Desmond Tutu

  2. He who controls others is powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still. — Lao Tzu

  3. You don’t have to manage people, you have to manage things. You lead people. — Iika Chase

  4. Listening is different from agreeing.–Barry & Emily J McCarthy, Getting It Right the First Time

  5. What you do speaks so loud I cannot hear what you say. — Ralph Waldo Emerson

  6. Some of us will do our jobs well and some will not, but we are judged by only one thing - the result. — Vincent Lombardi

  7. An authentic villain … One rarely meets him even once in a lifetime. The ordinary bad hat is always in part a decent fellow. –Colette

  8. A knowledge of communication patterns is ineffectual when it is not accompanied by respect. — Barbara Madonick, I Hear What You Say But What Are You Trying to Tell Me

  9. Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood. — Madame Curie

  10. Everything that irritates us can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. — Carl Jung

  11. Conflict emerges when people have difficulties in dealing with differences… –Michelle LeBarron,Bridging Cultural Conflicts: A New Approach for Changing the World

  12. The highest reward for our toil is not what we get, but what we become by it. — John Ruskin

  13. I just realized that there’s going to be a lot of painful times in life, so I better learn to deal with it the right way. –Trey Parker and Matt Stone, South Park

  14. Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. — Martin Luther King Jr.

  15. No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted. — Aesop